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Hi! My name is Caroline and I'm so glad you're here! I'm a photographer based in Texas. This blog is the spot where you'll find all things current with my photography and my life. Take a look around to get a feel for what I love to do. I'd love to hear from you...leave a comment or two, don't be shy! :)

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it's wonderful to have you here! thanks for visiting my blog. i'm caroline joy, a wedding and family photographer based in abilene, texas. this is the spot where you'll get to glance into my every day life as i live what i love.

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Saturday
30Jan2010

megan & matt's breakfast engagement session {sneak peek}

I've been SO BLESSED to have the world's best roommate experiences in my life. First, freshman and sophomore year, I had a super fun roomie named Erin. We got along just swimmingly and made some crazy memories. Then junior, senior, um 5th year senior, and the first-year-after-college years, I lived with Megan. Megan is just all smiles and upbeat-ness. I love her to death. She got engaged on New Years Day to an awesome, awesome guy, and I just couldn't be more excited for her! We planned their engagement session for last Saturday morning, and started off with some sweet shots of Megan and Matt cooking breakfast together. The time was so beautiful. Enjoy a sneak peek. :)

Thursday
28Jan2010

the weekend happenings: iron & wine and stacy reeves

We couldn't believe our ears. "I'm sorry, I don't think I got that. Who's coming to Abilene? To Abilene...Abilene, Texas?" 

It was true. We bought our tickets back in the summer, and finally, last week, it really happened: Iron and Wine came to town. 

Okay, yes, you can probably sit down with me and impress me for hours with all the cool bands you've seen all over America, and that semester abroad. But Iron and Wine came to Abilene! Things like this don't happen here. Ever. And it was so good! Loved getting to hear him live. I desperately tried to heed the "No Professional Photography" sign that I *may or may not have seen* but my camera happened to be in my bag. Besides, all I had on it was the 50mm 1.4 and, I mean, it's not an L series, so it's not technically professional...right? I stayed in my seat. I didn't get in anyone's way. I even waited til the very end. I only took a total of 6 shots. All I wanted was a crispity, clear, pretty one. I was totally satisfied with this one. Simple. Emotional. Good enough for me. :)

This was shot 1/25 of a sec, 200 ISO, at f/3 (much higher than normal for desired all-over sharpness). 

I got home from the concert around 11, and immediately fell into bed, after setting my alarm for 3:30AM (!!!). I was to wake up and head to Plano for a workshop put on by Stacy Reeves at 8AM sharp. My forbearing friend Jennifer, came as well, and, angel that she is, drove the whole way. Thanks Jennifer! :) Let me just say that, while the whole sleep deprivation thing was not fun (it felt like freshman year all over again), the workshop was worth every bit of it. If you ever have a chance to hang out with/learn from Stacy, PLEASE DO! She's a brilliant credit to the profession of photography, and I'm so honored to have learned from her. Thank you Stacy! Another friend of mine, Taylor, met us at the workshop. While Taylor and I had been "photography friends" for a while, we had never actually met until that morning...I was so happy to actually get to hang out with her! On top of that, Amanda and Robin, two of my dear Love Affair '09 friends, were there as well! What a sweet surprise!

To all of you wonderful readers who might be pursuing photography, or thinking about it, please, please, please go immediately and print out Stacy's guide to pricing. It will revolutionize your world. Also, and perhaps as a preface to reading Stacy's pricing guide, you should really read this article on the underpricing of photography. It's a little bit of tough love, but it's simply a must read, and a must share for photographers. Make sure you let me know when you check out both of these resources. I'd love to hear what you thought of them!

Friday
22Jan2010

kiki & ken {engaged}

 When Ken & Kiki first contacted me about their wedding photography, I KNEW I would love working with them. Both creatives. Both graphic designers. Both completely talented. Yes, I knew I would love working with them. The day of their engagement session came...and it was COLD! But we made up for it by goofing off and laughing at just about everything (including me backing my precious 4runner into a telephone pole guide wire...dang it). Scott came along to shoot with me, and it felt like we were all on a double date...so much fun. I think we all found about a million things we had in common. :)

 {below, left} Photo inspired by my lovely friend Erin of ee photography. Here's to you, friend!

{below, top left} Check out how long that scarf is! Ken educated Scott and I on it's history. Anyone know what it's from? Anyone? 


K&K, we had so much fun with you two. I think you guys are going to be those people who just have way too much fun in marriage. Your humor with each other is so refreshing and awesome! Thanks for being amazing, braving the cold, and running out into that field again...and again...and again. :) Can't wait for your wedding!

Saturday
16Jan2010

kiki & ken {sneak peek}

Last week, I finished reading one of the greatest books I've ever read: A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller. If I can ever inspire you to do one thing, I hope it's to go buy this book and read it. I have such a respect for authors. Every blog post I make, I struggle to put my words together in a cohesive and meaningful way...So when I read an entire book of cohesive and meaningful words, I'm just amazed, and so thankful that some people in this world are gifted with writing!

I have this theory that no matter what job/career/vocation we have in life, we eventually start to think it's not meaningful. We look at other people doing seemingly bigger things, and compare, and think we aren't changing the world. Or we look at just how many other people in the world are doing the EXACT SAME thing we're doing, and feel like what we're doing isn't all that special. 

I work with an amazing bookkeeper who has mentioned that she doesn't feel like she does anything important because her job revolves around repetitive daily tasks. I was slightly taken aback when I heard this, because to me, she's my saving grace! My business would be a giant mess if it weren't for her smarts and ability to come in and make sense of things. To her, her job was so familiar that she forgot that there are lots of people out there who are terrible at math and finances (like me) and need her help. :) 

So, what I'm trying to say here: What you do is not meaningless. We are all blessed with different gifts, brains, talents; we all need each other. I'm so thankful for people out there who can write a powerfully thought provoking book, perfectly balance a budget, and all the other things that people contribute to society that makes my life the way it is. To all of you people out there, THANK YOU for what you do! The world really wouldn't be the same without you.

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I had the awesome privilege of hanging out with Kiki and Ken for an afternoon, shooting engagement photos. I don't think I've ever asked for as many crazy poses and such as much as I did with them! K&K thank you so much for being SO FUN and up for it all! :) At one point, I had them run out into a field of super tall grass with their quilts flying back behind them (it was a freezing day!). I love, love, love the result, and had to share it. 

The photo also made me think of a line from the book by Donald Miller (that you really need to go buy): "Intentionally create a memorable life...When we look back on our lives, what we will remember are the crazy things we did, the times we worked harder to make a day stand out." I've had tons of great conversations in coffee shops, but the conversations that I remember the most are the ones where I was sitting on the roof of my house watching the sun rise, or the ones where I was sitting in the hot tub of an apartment complex where we had to jump the fence to get into.

I'm secretly hoping that running out into that field like crazy created a memory for K&K. What will you do today to make your day stand out?

 

Friday
15Jan2010

2010 creative & savvy wedding ideas

In case you missed it, last week I held a contest asking readers to send in their best DIY, money-saving, eco-friendly, or creative wedding ideas. Apparently all you blog readers are brilliant, and I loved all the ideas you came up with. This was so fun to put together! :)

Also, make sure to check out the top 5 ideas in the post below this one...Lindsey won our contest by getting the most votes for her awesome idea. Congrats Lindsey!

Get the most from your photos- Find creative ways to make the most of your investment in your photography by picking up a copy of the book Photos, Style Recipes from Pottery Barn.

Morning Wedding- A great way to save money for your wedding is to have a morning ceremony (esspecially if you chose to have a beach/outdoor wedding).  You will also save money at the venue that you chose to have your reception at... you can save around $500 - $1000 if you chose to have a brunch reception.  I just recently got married and chose this option because breakfast has always been my husband and I's favorite meal and it was a great way to incorporate who we are into our wedding. Plus, we saved around $1,000!! -Ruthie

Antique Touches- Someone told me about a wedding they went to recently that was travel themed.  The couple decorated the cake/gift/display table with antique suitcases and pictures of their grandparents weddings.  The guests filled out advice/well wishes cards for the couple on antique postcards and hung them on a tree.  I just like the idea of antique suitcases every where. -Erin

Use What You Have- Borrow your mom's veil for your something old and something borrowed, it is great if you are going for a more vintage feel. Also, Wear your favorite shoes from your closet, if your dress is long no one will see them and it's one less thing to buy.  Plus the shoes you have are more your style and will most likely coordinate with your wedding. -Courtney

Handmade Thank Yous- Instead of splurging on stationary, make your own Thank You notes using plain store-bought cards, and then stamping them. -Kristen

 

Music Savvy Tips- Since the love of my life is music...this idea is about music. I know so many of us girls dream of having an 8-piece band with cheesy wedding singer at our receptions, singing all our favorites and maybe one or two of our parents favorites. This is incredibly expensive! I'm sure you know. So, you downgrade to a DJ. He's got the radio voice, the records spinning...just one problem. Also moderately expesive. So listen up bride-to-be! Get on your computer and log onto itunes. Within a few hours, you can have a rockin' mix of your own. All you need to do is hire a wanna-be DJ friend (for cheap) and rent some speakers and you are on your way to a jammin' reception with all the perfect songs, sung just like you like them! -Cherith

Stay Organized- Probably the most important (and overlooked) way to save money for your wedding is to stay organized with a strict plan and budget. That way you know exactly where all your money is going. Invest in a good planner, with a section for budgeting, like this one from See Jane Work. See Jane Work also has tons of great and practical gift items for your bridesmaids, etc. 

RSVP Online- Something that I'm doing to cut cost is....instead of paying double for stamps on the return envelopes for RSVP, I'm designing a simple business card sized insert with a 'check yes or no' type theme. You may call it cheap but....its gonna save money. All they do is send a quick email to (for example) wellbethere@gmail.com or sorrywecant@gmail.com. -Kristin

Photo Props- Just something creative and fun...smittensticks{dot}com

Use Your Village-  We all know the charming cliché, “It takes a village to raise a child.” I would argue that it also takes a village to get that child married!  One of my favorite money saving tactics has been finding the wildly talented people that are part of my life already and asking them to be part of this special time. My future mother-in-law is tackling my wedding dress alterations!  Alterations can be just as expensive as the dress, so I was thrilled when she offered her services.  Not only is it saving money, but she is glad to feel so involved and use her skills.  She has two sons and no daughters so she loves to take part in all the girly stuff! -Lindsey

Giant Balloons- I'm stealing this from www.greenweddingshoes.blogspot.com...but it's such a GREAT idea! Here's what the couple, Kate & Andy, did - "Andy really wanted to use paper lanterns, but we couldn't hang them due to the gallery's super high ceilings, so I found the large white balloons, hoping they would have the same effect. We used twine for the strings and collected antique knobs and hooks to use as weights--" LOVE it!!! And absolutely love that they incorporated the balloons into their group photos!! The pictures on the greenweddingshoes blog speak for themselves. :) -Lezlie

Gather Inspiration from Blogs- I love finding unique ideas on different wedding blogs like Snippet and Ink, EtsyWeddings, and Style Me Pretty. -Megan

More Fabric Flowers- I'm penny pinchin' for this wedding. I'd rather spend less for the wedding and save more for our life together. Benefits: 1) Saves Money (no purchasing whole-sale flowers, keeping them cool, no design/arrangement fees & shipping cost) 2) Keepsake (I could keep them on my kitchen table in a snazzy vase for all of time) 3) It looks cool (this is the most technical reason of them all) 4) they don't die. -Kristin

Second Hand Shopping- I actually bought my wedding dress from a bridal resale shop in Dallas. While some brides might not want to have a wedding dress that someone else wore, I was totally happy with this option. It didn't bother me at all because I got an amazing designer dress for a great price! No one else had to know it had been previously owned (although I was so proud of it that I told lots of people anyway!). It looked brand new and totally perfect. -Jenna

Thrift Shop for Table Decor- Places like Salvation Army have old mismatched glasses and tins that you can easily turn into into the most gloriously quaint flower vases and centerpieces.

(credits: Apartment Therapy, W Scott Chester, Kristin Partin, Gabriel Ryan)